Sunday, 24 August 2014

The Friendship Algorithm

hey guys
This post was going to be my first entry since friendships day was just around .Well I remember I got my first friend at four.A boy of my age came by.We were in a sand bed.I had a shovel and this guy had a bucket.We eventually had to team up to build what I would call a fairly good enough house. Therefore friendship isn't something that is voluntary  it happens whether you planned it or not just like destiny.

Well with friends you never go where you thought you wanted to go, but you always got a great story. That's probably the best part it is not about the odds, it is about believing and you just gotta take the leap.Also any experience in your life  you don't really know if it's a mistake because the only way to really know it's a mistake is to make the mistake and look back and say 'yes, it was a mistake' or simply have great friends who act as friend philosopher and guide all throughout.

According to me the only thing that could really heal a broken heart was time.But now i think it wouldn't be wrong if i add friends to it.We spend so much effort trying to keep parts of our lives hidden, even from our closest friends, but in those rare times when we do open up, it's amazing how minor those secrets all end up being.

" Doesn’t mean you're right  and I'm wrong"situation is so priceless.It starts with the most simple and the meaningful arguments , then the story is followed by idiotic ones ,dumbest ones,insane ones and from "har ek friend zaroori hota hain"it turns to "har ek friend kamina hota hain".

The littlest thing like friendships can cause a ripple effect that changes your life.We struggle so hard to hold on to these things that we know are gonna disappear at some time .But  then throughout the see saws of our life ,one thing that is not gonna disappear is friendship.So hold on to it because as the most awesome person on this planet says "anything you do in your life is not legendary unless your friends are there to see it."

A Friendly Blogger

Monday, 11 August 2014

Where Were We...

hey guys
I know I stopped blogging randomly...lost??hiding??NO.Well last two weeks have been quite a topsy turvy one.It is always difficult to follow a good week with another decent one.Packed with emotions ,i decided to make this blog entry differently.

Excitement:The week started of with regular classes and on Tuesday i got my first surprise package.It was from my sister for raksha bandhan .The special thing about packages and gifts is that they give you a feeling about being loved and cared and that to someone in some part of the world you matter a lot.She sends it every year.I love u di.

Contended:Preparation for exams was a pretty important and hard task specially because the interesting subjects became drab and uneventful eventually. As for my exams ,for the amount of dedication i showed this time i probably aced it above my standards.Results are due next week.(fingers crossed).


Helplessness: It sucks when you need someone and you can't have them there with you. It sucks even more when you can't be there physically for the people that you love. So yeah people that I hold really close to my heart just were having rough days or weeks and nothing I could do apart from talking to them could make it better. I can't wait for the day when I don't have to feel that way at least not this often.

Touched: Nothing feels better than people telling you they love you and a heart to heart sometimes just makes everything around you better. I found some real deep conversations with people here as well as was pleasantly surprised by the impact I had on a friend I haven't spoken to in a long time.

Happy:I taught my roommates how to play cards and just spending time with them talking and playing cards was probably the highlight of this weekend.Now that we are done with exams ,back to some gaming folks.

There are a few more,but that would make this blog never ending.Life has been more like a roller coaster .After every low there comes a new high.But then as some one has said once, you have to experience both sides of a coin to appreciate and enjoy the better side even more.The next week looks more promising .I will be back in Chennai to spend some time with the most craziest people in the world.Anyways this post was just to update you guys with the fact that i am alive and the fun never ends.


Lazy Blogger